geographical fugue

this is a very funny experience i had in my choir of La Sorbonne: "Fuge aus der Geographie" (1930), a word canon by Ernst Toch... (listen)
from which i've learnt many geographical names, including:

and some places i know,

(in memory of...)

cat. = international, music, travel, wallpaper (downloadable@hoops&yoyo)

mtr song by anonymous

(click title to listen)

Let's start from the very beginning
Though there's plenty of places to start
If you want to get around
You can get all of the town
Just by
stepping on the ground onto the M-T-R (M-T-R) MTRKCR
Just follow me:

Tsuen Wan, Tai Wo Hau, Kwai Hing, Kwai Fong, Lai King, and Mei Foo, Lai
Chi Kok, Cheung Sha Wan, Sham Shui Po, and ??? (change trains)
Shek Kip Mei, Kowloon Tong, Lok Fu, Wong Tai Sin, Diamond Hill, Choi Hung, and onto Kowloon Bay, Ngau Tau Kok, Kwun Tong and Lam Tin, and then Yau Tong change for Quarry Bay, North Point, Fortress Hill, and Tin Hau, ???, in English Causeway Bay, Wan Chai, next for me - Admiralty, Central and then you have a choice ?? but I like Tsim Sha Tsui, Jordan we're off to Yau Ma Tei, Mong Kok and here we are again we've returned Prince Edward Road
so if you want to get around just get yourself down to the M-T-R




cat. = hong kong, humor, music, transportainment

rethinking marital counselling

reference links:
1.1 http://www.lse.ac.uk/people/j.lewis@lse.ac.uk/publications.htm#2001
1.2 http://72.14.203.104/search?q=cache:XzQcLdgrUDkJ:www.buddhism.hku.hk/staff_info/Dr%2520CSTYeung.pdf+study+attitudes+pre-marital+couples+toward+marriage&hl=en&lr=lang_zh-CNlang_zh-TW
1.3 (as above) 1996
1.6 http://www.hku.hk/socwork/hksw/staff/cv/cheung.htm & http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/IES/hongkong.html (check authors)
1.10 http://www.gottman.com/about/john_gottman/
1.11 http://www.sagepub.com/book.aspx?pid=2767
1.12 http://www.massey.ac.nz/~alock/culture/culture.htm (cehck update)
2.1 http://tfj.sagepub.com/cgi/content/refs/13/4/406
2.2 http://tfj.sagepub.com/cgi/content/refs/13/3/266
2.3 http://www.thebowencenter.org/pages/biomek.html
2.4 http://www.guilfordpress.co.uk/book.asp?id=1572307587&fieldname=contents
2.5 http://narrativebooks.com/books.php?bookID=44
3.1 http://ag.arizona.edu/fcs/fshd/uclasses/337.htm
http://etds.ncl.edu.tw/theabs/site/sh/detail_result.jsp?id=088NKNU0142012&mod=2
3.2 http://www.nyu.edu/classes/keefer/com/kirk.html
3.3 http://encyclopedias.families.com/therapy-1626-1645-iemf,14
3.4 http://72.14.203.104/search?q=cache:XuzhIX_tPy0J:psychweb.cisat.jmu.edu/counselpsyc/Psyc668CoupleandFamily.htm+guerin+fay+burden+kautto+evaluation+treatment+marital+conflict&hl=en
3.5 http://dejavu.sdsu.edu/research/guides/socialwork/swjanmar02.shtml
3.6 http://www.magicdragon.com/EmeraldCity/Nonfiction/famdyn.html
4.1 http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/abstract/155/5/582?maxtoshow=&HITS=10&hits=10&RESULTFORMAT=&author1=lewis&andorexactfulltext=and&searchid=1134634063685_122&stored_search=&FIRSTINDEX=0&sortspec=relevance&volume=155&firstpage=582&resourcetype=1&journalcode=ajp
4.2 http://www3.extension.umn.edu/parentsforever/unit3II/library.asp
4.3 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=1404441&dopt=Citation
4.4 http://www.isbn.pl/C-4/A-masters-johnson/T-sex-human-loving/
4.5 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=8468709&dopt=Citation
4.7 http://www.arts.mcgill.ca/etg/speirs/Couples_references.htm
4.8 http://as.wiley.com/WileyCDA/WileyTitle/productCd-0471129143.html
4.9 http://www.womenandsociety.buffalo.edu/bibliog/articles/bib/i-k.htm
4.10 http://athens.pop.psu.edu/CtrSSRI/DirBio.cfm?PeopleID=168
5.1 http://www.worldcatlibraries.org/wcpa/ow/4ae60d789fb1cc7ba19afeb4da09e526.html
5.2 http://jointpublishing.com/model/bookdetail.asp?ISBN=962-457-206-2
5.3 http://encyclopedias.families.com/therapy-1626-1645-iemf,7
5.4 http://www.wwnorton.com/catalog/backlist/030707.htm
5.5 http://www.forgiving.org/Campaign/biblio3.asp
5.6 http://www.forgiving.org/Campaign/biblio3.asp
5.7 http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060928174/104-4067132-9952765?v=glance&n=283155
5.8 http://www.psy.vu.nl/fpp.php/departments/socialpsychology/people/details.html?id=449
6.1 http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/tg/stores/detail/-/books/0567085228/toc/202-2505851-4453465
6.2 http://www.forgiving.org/Campaign/biblio3.asp
6.4 http://spr.sagepub.com/cgi/content/refs/22/6/723
6.5 http://www.forgivenessweb.com/RdgRm/Bibliography.html
6.6 http://www.bostontheological.org/academic/engaging_conflict.htm
6.7 http://psychcentral.com/psyhelp/biblio/bib9b.htm
7.1 http://www.popula.com/items_fp/item_description.cfm?item_fp_ID=2120615
7.2 http://www.gcomin.co.kr/data/226/F225052.html
7.3 http://www.americanvalues.org/html/r-unhappy_ii.html
7.4 http://www.wwnorton.com/orders/npb/070180.htm
7.5 http://www.powells.com/cgi-bin/biblio/0684802414
7.6 http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0914783610/ref=sib_dp_bod_toc/104-4067132-9952765?%5Fencoding=UTF8&p=S002#reader-page
7.7 http://chipts.ucla.edu/assessment/Assessment_Instruments/Assessment_files_new/assess_srrs.htm


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Carter, B. & Mc Goldrick, M. (1989).Overview the changing family : A framework for family therapy. In B. Carter & M. Mc Goldrick (Eds.), The changing family cycle : A framework for family therapy(2nd ed.). New York : Allyn & Bacon.

Shaddock, David. From Impasse to Intimacy: How Understanding Unconscious Needs Can Transform Relationships. Northvale, New Jersey: Jason Aronson Inc., 1998.

Guerin, P., Fay, L., Burden, S., & Kautto, J. (1987). The marital dyad: A theoretical overview. In P.Guerin, L. Fay, S. Burden, & J. Kautto, The evaluation and treatment of marital conflict. New York: Basic Books

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For Better or Worse: Interpersonal Relationships and Individual Outcome

J Sex Marital Ther. 1992 Fall;18(3):173-95.

Little Brown & Company, New York, USA, 1986 Hardback. Reprint. Dw., sl.worn and a few tears. 598 pp. Illus. V.g.- nr fine. Masters, William H.; Johnson, Virginia E.; Kolodny, Robert C. - Masters and Johnson on Sex and Human Loving

Hurlbert DF

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tbc:
p.25 http://www.judiciary.gov.hk/tc/crt_services/pphlt/html/divorce.htm#3, "clean break" approach
p.41 http://www.thebowencenter.org/pages/theory.html, 8: human emotional system
p.43 http://www.dmrtk.jgytf.u-szeged.hu/phare/cze/more.htm, palo alto - jay haley - milan team

cat. = book, councelling, marriage, reference