rethinking marital counselling

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tbc:
p.25 http://www.judiciary.gov.hk/tc/crt_services/pphlt/html/divorce.htm#3, "clean break" approach
p.41 http://www.thebowencenter.org/pages/theory.html, 8: human emotional system
p.43 http://www.dmrtk.jgytf.u-szeged.hu/phare/cze/more.htm, palo alto - jay haley - milan team

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